When
you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.
You thanked her by crying all night long.
When
you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.
When
you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.
You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.
When
you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.
You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.
When
you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.
You thanked her by plopping into the nearest pile of mud
When
you were 6 years old, she walked you to school.
You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING!"
When
you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball.
You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor's window.
When
you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream.
You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.
When
you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons.
You thanked her by never even bothering to practice.
When
you were 10 years old she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastics
to one birthday party after another.
You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.
When
you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies.
You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.
When
you were 12 years old, she told you not to watch certain TV shows.
You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.
"Those
Teenage Years"
When
you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.
You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.
When
you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.
You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.
When
you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug.
You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.
When
you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car.
You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.
When
you were 17, she was expecting an important call.
You thanked her by being on the phone all night.
When
you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.
You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.
"Growing
Old and Gray"
When
you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus,
carried your bags.
You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't
be embarrassed in front of your friends.
When
you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.
You thanked her by saying, "It's none of your business."
When
you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.
You thanked her by saying, "I don't want to be like you."
When
you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.
You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.
When
you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.
You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.
When
you were 24, she met your fiance and asked about your plans for the
future.
You thanked her by glaring and growling,"Muuhh-ther, please!"
When
you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and
told you how deeply she loved you.
You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.
When
you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.
You thanked her by telling her, "Things are different now."
When
you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's birthday.
You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."
When
you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.
You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their
children.
And
then, one day, she quietly died.
And everything you never did came crashing down like thunder.